Okay, I've got a question for all soulcasters who can share their views or thoughts on this.  If you have a boyfriend/husband, whom you just absolutely love, he's very nice, kind, gorgeous, and all other good attributes you can think of in a man BUT the thing is, he's a womanizer!  So, what do you do in such situation?  Do you stick it out with your man or leave him and go look for another one who's faithful, not all the qualities that you wanted but the loyalty is there?  Would you just let him be, go on about with his womanizing ways?  Is that a martyr trait? 
 
Thanks for all your comments!


Comments

  • kruuyai said Feb 19, 2007...
    I guess you just have to ask yourself what it is you want in a relationship.  Do you feel hurt when you find out that he is seeing other women?  If so, this relationship is probably not for you.  Are you okay with the idea of an open relationship?  Then, it should work both ways.  There's no reason for you to be bound to someone who is not equally bound to you (unless you're content with that).  Just be safe.
  • silverwhisper said Feb 20, 2007...
    honestly, i'd drop him. if he's a womanizer, he's told you in no uncertain terms that your relationship is less important to him than the opportunity to have sex at every opportunity no matter the cost. think about that for a moment. you're less important to him than sex w/ someone he's just met. you deserve better out of life and from a relationship. ed
  • mysterious said Feb 21, 2007...
    yeah, that's something that has to be really given serious thoughts on, thanks!
  • mysterious said Feb 21, 2007...
    so ed --- I take it you're a one-woman kind of man, huh? Your wife is lucky to have you and so are you for having a wonderful wife by your side.
  • silverwhisper said Feb 21, 2007...
    mysterious: nah, i'm the lucky one. :> ed
  • CreativeWoman said Mar 2, 2007...
    You have to decide what is best for you.  I know that sounds simplistic, but my only advice is not to swallow ANY emotions that make you feel negative about yourself.  That's one of my biggest regrets in life.CW
  • marnnieloo said May 4, 2010...
    Hi, can some one please give me some good advice iv been married for 22years i love my husband iv been faithful and honest with him but 4years ago he started eyeing up every girl in sight then i noticed it was one sort of girl he stairs at them really giveing them the ones over he turns his head to them every chance he gets it up sets me and he no's it iv got this gut feeling he has had an affair, is it wrong for me to be up set cause of the way he is with other girls........marnnieloo
  • KAKES47 said Aug 5, 2010...
    HEY. OKAY NOW WHY DO I HAVE THE SAME TYPE OF MAN AT HOME WITH ME? @:marnnieloo MATTER A FACT I MENT HIM ON BLACK PEOPLE MEET THE SAME WAY,MENT HIM TALKED ON THE PHONE 24/7 WITH HIM, HE ASKED ME TO MARRY HIM. TOLD ME TO GO PICK OUT A RING. CAME TO COLORADO TO MEET MY FAMILY (JUST PUT ON A BIG FRONT!) MAKING MY FAMILY THINK HE WAS SERIOUS! THAN TOLD ME HE WANTED ME TO MOVE TO THE ATL.. WE TALKED ABOUT IT FOR A WHILE AND IT SOUNDED REAL GOOD. A YEAR LATER I LOAD UP A TRUCK FULL OF MY THINGS AND HERE I AM ME AND MY DAUGHTOR DOWN HERE IN ATLANTA WITH HIM AND IT HAS NOT BEEN THE SAME SINCE :( HE ACT'S LIKE IM NOT EVEN HERE WE LIVE IN THE SAME HOUSE TOGETHER AND IT'S JUST LIKE WE ARE ROOMMATES, I LOVE HIM DEARLY AND I BELIEVE IN MY HEART THAT HE LOVES ME TOO. BUT HE'S A (WOMENIZER) WHEN WE FIRST MOVED IN OUR APPARTMENT THERE WAS A YOUNG LADY THAT WORKS IN THE OFFICE THAT HE WAS LOOKING AT. I REALLY BELIEVE THAT HE HAS DEALINGS WITH THAT GIRL WHY YOU ASK? BECAUSE I FOUND A POEM TO HER. WOW AND A COUPLE OF DAY'S BEFORE THAT MY DAUGHTOR CAME HOME FROM THE POOL AND TOLD ME HOW THEY WERE BOTH AT THE POOL PLAYING IT OFF TALKING.. SO WHAT DO YOU THINK I SHOULD DO. I MOVED DOWN HERE AND IM STILL TRYING TO GET ON MY FEET. HE PAYS THE BILL AND ALL OF THAT BUT THATS A WHOLE LOT TO DEAL WITH WHAT DO YOU THINK I SHOULD DO? PLEASE TELL ME WHAT I SHOULD DO I AM A BEAUTIFUL BLACK QUEEN AND I HAVE MANY MEN FALLING AT MY FEET BUT I GUESS IM NOT ENOUGH FOR HIM - AND REALLY HE'S NOT ALL THAT SO WHAT SHOULD I DO KAKAES

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